sickness takes away happiness and what's within you.
sometimes you are just not yourself when you're not feeling good.
haji is a good example.
i've thinking about what haji bed 55 said.
this is what he told me last night after we quaralled:
'i am stressed you know..because of my sickness, my family don't want me..my wife doesn't wants me..my sons don't like me..my character is like that what can i do?'..'.last time, i not like that...i no job you know..'
yes. that was what he told me when i sit on the chair and spoke to him.
well, i was surprised and at the same time he soften me.
i do not know what got into him that he will tell me about his things.
it's better that he speak out what he feels.
i believe he is a nice guy when before he has renal failure got into him and
also I believe no one is bad. there should be a reason why they are behaving this way.
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yes. i threw temper at him last night.
i know i shouldn't be, as a nurse.
but, he really flares me up.
pressing numerous call-bells, and poor zi hui got to answer to his unneccessary needs.
i really scolded him and wanted to nearly fight with him.
he tailed up his oxygen level several times to 7-8 litres claiming that he is feeling SOB but yet can walked out and sat on the geriatric chair without 02 and asking for milo.
it reallies freaks me and pissed me to the max.
i exchange words loudly with him till other patients woke up.
i think the dr. png also saw.
he even claims zihui put insert something into his sacral causing him pain
he said he will find his own family doctor if there is something happen. he will complain.
like what the hell?
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the below is part of our conservations, that what i said to him last night:
'the more you know your character than you should change.
change for the better.
go for regular dialysis and not over-loading yourself even no one brings you.
you have legs and hands. you could work for yourself. no need to ask your family bring you. you depend on yourself.
and why the heck you are scolding us?
we have parents. we do have father and mother.
are you going to do this to your children as well?
do you know it hurts and sadden us too?
you want milo we give you. you should know that you are a renal patient and you are not allow to give you. but because you insisted, we have got no choice but to give you.
why are you behaving like that.
he kept quiet and said i know.
told me he stressed over many things.
but i said that shouldn't be the way to treat others then.
i said you remember scold us words like 'bastard' do you remember?
he said where got?
i said you did okay. i said you tell us slowly. don't shout shout at us.
that is why we are so angry with you.
he say play play only. why we so sensitive? I was like 'wadever.'
i say why u say she (referring to zi hui) insert things into your backside?
i say she was trying to clean you and you tried to move away. she didn't do anything that is trying to harm you.
i told him we are nurses here trying to help you. what you think we will do to you?
he said zihui very sensitive cannot take joke.
dots.
after that, he tell me he last time not like that and stuffs
it's his character. thats why his family doesn't like him.
i said i know you are feeling difficult..SOB and itchy here and there but you can't just shout at us.
i told him there is a reason why we didn't allow him to tail up the oxygen. because its too high later the nose will be dry and will eventually bleed. do you want it? then he kept quiet.
i told him not to worry if your o2 level really drop we will increase for him. don't worry.
after that he changed topic.
asked me to help him. he said he needs counselling. my god. COUNSELLING? he actually asked for counselling himself. wadever. shock.
and said please to me.
he cannot sleep. has been a few days. he feels difficult.
i told him he is already on some medications to help him sleep but
ask me to help him ask doctor to prescribe some meds.
I said fine. i help you by whatever ways i could next time we talk properly. please don't shout at us.
i ensure him i will get for him and serve to him onces its ordered.
afterwhich, he apologised and go back to bed.
when changing the diaper one more time, he apologised to zihui.
after the png order the piriton, i served to haji and he slept through the night till morning.
lol. it does work alittle. no more call-bells.
last night female side was busy. I just help around here and there to see what I can do. I was stressed too. cause 46i wasn't doing too good was a new admission from ED was on 100% , sp02 is 88% c/o chest pain. PTB too. then poor heavily tattoo 48a uncle c/o chest pain. desaturated slightly and he look superly unwell and unstable. He keep climbing out of bed. zihui and me took turns to look after him. 37 new admission was on hourly hypocount and sliding scale keep taking down oxygen. I just tried to do whatever I can to help. it was a rushing night, in view that 46i was a potential active case. the reg already said that if desats further ICU. zihui, hope and me was super mentally ready. By 4.30am plus zihui already sponge finished our side cause only 2 and female side shortly after.
well, well, well..it ended
